Western science was a male dominated field, just like everything else used to be before this century. I find it hard to believe that they would've chosen to list the female first in their lingo. So from that standpoint alone, listing the dame first is counter-intuitive to me. Of course, I'm ignorant of the actual facts/history, but I am skeptical that OP is correct, since he didn't cite any links. I'd like to get this settled though so I am not causing confusion. However, if the hatcheries list the male first, then I don't see how we can avoid confusion.
Even if listing the female first is scientifically correct, standards are usually set by the industry, so if we can agree that the hatcheries are the industry, and they do the opposite then we should likely follow their standard.
Bah, this is starting to seem like a stalemate...at least I know I need to clarify from now on.