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This seems like one big disaster to you right now because you're in the middle of it and feeling very frustrated and overwhelmed by it all --- but this whole situation is entirely "fixable" and, at the end of it, you'll be surprised at just how un-disasterous it really was.  Socializing your new friends won't be all that hard, they are actually quite easily manipulated as they are highly food motivated little buggars.   Right now you are this new, scary thing - once you are no longer "new" you can stop being scary as well, especially if they start to associate you with the arrival of choice bits of treat.  The more they see of you just going about your business the more you will become just another part of the scenery.  Take a book and set out near them reading, read aloud to them- talk/sing while doing your chores - take every opportunity to make the sight and sound of you completely ordinary to them.