So, Mary, you see why I don't do that job any longer. I am not a game player. And ethics are a joke for the most part, especially when you deal with other cultures whose idea of what is honest and ethical is different from American culture. Had my fill of all that crap and the other realtors (and even clients) who were a pleasure to work with were few and far between. I was very good at my job, several repeat clients, however, that wasn't enough to offset the pains and bad memories I was collecting. And there were so many entities involved in any one transaction, I couldn't carry it alone and drag everyone along with me.
Hope it works out soon and you can be done with it all.