It's really hard to get married at an older age. We get so stuck in our ways. I was actually very happy being single. I had a good job, if I didn't have to deal with the people and politics. I had great friends. But it was time to move on and I met this great guy. He really is wonderful. Sometimes his "The world revolves around me" additude bugs me, but then I think that's a problem with having gotten married older. Good luck and I hope you find the right guy but don't compromise! Stick to your guns and find the right guy don't settle.