I'm not sure about chicks never wanting to be held.. I have a few who cry for one on one time, which usually equals out to a few mealworms, a chase around the desk like someone might steal said meal worms, and then stepping back into my hand to pass out and go to sleep against chest under a cupped palm. There has been one or two chicks of mine who never enjoyed contact, but for the most part everyone of them step up onto my hand to come out of the brooder. It takes time. if there's a lot of commotion around, they're understandably nervous. I hand feed mine, but I've never had any problems result of it, the exact opposite actually. Feeding them from my hand has given them the reassurance that "THE CLAW" really isn't there to eat or do them harm. I started with scrambled egg, something they really liked but didn't go insane over like the mealworms, and a few brave little souls would lead the way for the others. I have a habit clucking my tongue while I gently hold them and it seems to sooth them, admittedly its easier to start with chicks a few days old who automatically pass out the moment you cover their backs with your hand than it is with chicks that are nearing a month that want to flap and explore and not sit still. Patience and calmness are the best tools for gentling.
What breeds do you have? Some breeds are a heck of a lot flightier than others
What breeds do you have? Some breeds are a heck of a lot flightier than others