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. . . Mantha, the best way to change, is to stop pitying yourself. We've all had our problems and hardships, and most people have a part of themselves they don't like.


ShinShisn,
Yours gets an 8, I like Sleipnir! LOL
I agree! I feel like i need to slap myself when i get like that. I must say that i feel you, but there's nothing you can do about certain stuff...

You think I pity myself? I hate myself. I couldn't be able to give somebody one thing I liked about myself if I tried. And trust me, I have tried.
Why though? You are a good person!

But why? You seem like a very nice person, you are funny, smart and creative from what I've seen. You have to see that yourself.
I know! That's how i feel!

From what you've seen. You haven't seen me in the middle of the night when I cry my eyes out. I do it then because nobody can hear me
I am the EXACT WAY. I know where you are coming from... Not a lot of people understand. I'm actually sick to the point of throwing up right now. Last year I lost 23lbs from anxiety. You need to snap out of it or you will get VERY SICK.
 
"Snap out of it?" That's one of the worst things to say to a person with depression. The problem is that I just can't.

i didn't mean it mean... i meant for your own health... it's not good for you to be that depressed. i understand, don't think i don't.
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I agree with you Pumkin, and I've also gone through depression. But you need to stop bottling your feelings up and pretending that everything's fine, you need to confront how you feel, except it, for it will pass, and move on with your life. Spend time thinking of yourself in a positive way, find something you love to do and put your energy into it!

And yes, I do think you are pittying yourself, and that's because people that are truly hiding how they feel, don't post about it.
 

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