~The Council Of Youngers of BYC! (COY)~

[Fierlin1182]

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YAY! I have supporters!

You know the sort, who always make assumptions about your personal life.

Some people think they know everything about everyone.

The first person I started PMing with, we actually made friends over some of these know-it-alls giving her a hard time. I can't believe I got caught into it too! I swear, I am never leaving GJF and RR again.

 

[chickendiva25]

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tell his instructor then, email them if you have to

we care about you!

x2.

I suggest talking to your mom when the two of you have some time when you can just talk by yourselves, and tell her everything that's been going on, and tell her your true feelings about the way she's making you feel like no one cares about you.

I've been really, really wanting to talk with my Mom. She's just so.....Busy. I'm waiting for that one moment where I can just sit her down and talk.

 

[chickendiva25]

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Yeah, that old. Of course, he's hit me so many times that my skin has toughened up and it doesn't hurt as much anymore. But, dang, the bruises start to get sore after a while.

I have this giant bruise on my leg where he kicked me, with his shoe on.

That's horrible.

I mean, my brothers and I get into tons of fights, but we usually don't get physical just because of the aspect of getting kicked out.

Make sure you still have those when you talk to his instructor.

Yep, quite horrible. I really need to figure out a way to defend myself, but I don't want to take any self defense lessons. At all. Its just not my thing. I'll be starting fencing lessons next year, but I dount that'll do me any good.

 

[equinehugger3]

ray's two cents :

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Some people think they know everything about everyone.

The first person I started PMing with, we actually made friends over some of these know-it-alls giving her a hard time. I can't believe I got caught into it too! I swear, I am never leaving GJF and RR again.

I know how you feel.

 

[Fierlin1182]

Good luck, Diva.

Your brother sounds pretty nasty.
Personally, I'd go for those self defence lessons (learned some great stuff doing a unit about it in PE this year!) but I understand that it's not your thing.

 

[chickendiva25]

ray's two cents :

Good luck, Diva.

Your brother sounds pretty nasty.
Personally, I'd go for those self defence lessons (learned some great stuff doing a unit about it in PE this year!) but I understand that it's not your thing.

He is very nasty.

I'd like to do selfdefense classes, but most are exspensive and I don't like the fact that you might get hurt.

 

[Fierlin1182]

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He is very nasty.

I'd like to do selfdefense classes, but most are exspensive and I don't like the fact that you might get hurt.

It you're worried you'll get hurt, don't be! They teach you the basics, but you don't actually lay a finger on the people you practise with. They give you punching bags for that.

... Although it does depend on who you're with. I have a friend, who I declined to partner with after a while because she wouldn't stop actually making contact with my shins, and it hurt like heck lol.

 

[equinehugger3]

*Butts in* In my TKD class, the only pain I get is from exercises.

Never lays a finger on you.

Unless, like Ray said, you get a jerkish partner for basic one steps or something.

Plus, TKD is 80% kicks, so no rolling around on the ground!

I sound like a commercial. *Gets announcer voice and speaks super fast* Equine is not responsible for any injuries caused by the sport or any person affiliated with it.

 

[chickendiva25]

ray's two cents :

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He is very nasty.

I'd like to do selfdefense classes, but most are exspensive and I don't like the fact that you might get hurt.

It you're worried you'll get hurt, don't be! They teach you the basics, but you don't actually lay a finger on the people you practise with. They give you punching bags for that.

... Although it does depend on who you're with. I have a friend, who I declined to partner with after a while because she wouldn't stop actually making contact with my shins, and it hurt like heck lol.​

Okay, good.

Although I think it would be useful to enter some sort of MMA class, like my Brother, I don't like the thought of rolling around on the ground with another girl. o.o 'Cause, since I'm a girl, I'd have to fight with another girl. Yeah, when you watch the guys fight, it is really akward.

Ouch...

 

[Fierlin1182]

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It you're worried you'll get hurt, don't be! They teach you the basics, but you don't actually lay a finger on the people you practise with. They give you punching bags for that.

... Although it does depend on who you're with. I have a friend, who I declined to partner with after a while because she wouldn't stop actually making contact with my shins, and it hurt like heck lol.

Okay, good.

Although I think it would be useful to enter some sort of MMA class, like my Brother, I don't like the thought of rolling around on the ground with another girl. o.o 'Cause, since I'm a girl, I'd have to fight with another girl. Yeah, when you watch the guys fight, it is really akward.

Ouch...

It is pretty awkward. I remember having to get thrown over my partner's shoulder and having to get tripped up... but they make sure you do it gently, with all these rules so you can't actually hurt yourself.