My husband is that way too. Great with the cats, loves the chickens, works hard, indulges me, but at times, drives me nuts. The man HAS a cell phone, and knows how to use it, but does he? NO! I can send him to the store for something, and when he doesn't know size, brand, etc. he too, will bring home several of that item. For the life of me, I can't figure out why he didn't just call me.
The other thing he does...if he's out and about, gets hungry, and decides to grab something to eat, he can't just get for himself, or CALL me to ask what I'd like. Instead, he brings home way too much food, most of which I don't really like, because he's not sure what I might want to eat. All the money we pay for "smart phones", and he won't use it to call me to ask about things like that. It's exasperating, but I keep in mind that there are a lot worse things than that, and overall, he's a keeper.