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After she was on the road, a friend of hers up there contacted me through Tom's FB page to get my phone number, said it was urgent. She had gone to help Ladyhawk load up the UHaul. She said the husband browbeat her the entire time, followed her around lecturing her (he did all day lectures on a daily basis, got them in debt they didn't need then said it was her fault, etc). This woman said she actually went armed because she thought he was dangerous (he was). If LH had just come down here to live with us when he was ramping up his abuse, she would have been safe. He would not have gotten to her. I also feel the intense cold of Wisconsin in her state of health was a contributing factor to her early death, just another stress on her she didn't need. She waited far too long to leave. LH was an attorney in Florida at one time, a blackbelt way back when, but her body was so frail and her spirit so crushed, she was not the strong woman I originally met all those years ago. I miss her terribly. I have so many great memories of her, her in her PJs surrounded by my chickens getting goodies from her, Suede on her lap eating blueberry muffins she baked for him. I wanted her to meet the new kids here. She would have gotten such a kick out of the bantam Cochin boys.