The Front Porch Swing

Is anyone else excited for Mother's Day?  'Cause you don't need to be a mama to get excited for it!

I'm in the process of helping Dad out with Mom's gift.  If you all promise not to spill my secrets, I'll tell you the story.  Pull up your chairs and buckets! :pop

Several years ago, Mom took a trip to California to visit her oldest sister, Kika.  She had cancer and it was quickly becoming apparent that it wasn't going to end well.  Mama was just a young teacher back then, just getting a grip on her student loans, so she didn't have much money.  My other aunts and uncles were visiting Kika all the time, taking flights once every other week to visit and take care of her.  Mom couldn't do that, but she made the effort to visit once.

Mom was afraid of flying.  Heck, Mom was afraid of leaving the Rio Grande Valley.  The idea was terrifying to her, but she got on that plane with Grandma and they were off, ready to visit one of the most influential people of her life.  Mom took care of Kika for a week before returning home. 

Kika was very important to Mom.  She was the one who worked several jobs to make ends meet and to send her siblings to school.  She wanted Mom to become something, so she made sure Mom did well in school.  She made sure Mom, the youngest child in the family, went to college.  Mom always said that Kika wouldn't let her quit her job at Whataburger because if she did, she'd be quitting on school and her entire future.  Now, Mom has been an English teacher for 28 years and she thinks she still have at least 10 more years left on her before she has to retire.  Students still come to visit her from 20 years ago, bringing along their kids to meet the woman who will have taught English to not one, but two generations of their family.

In lieu of Mother's Day, Dad found all his old video tapes.  Unfortunately, the old video camera that Dad had used to record all these home videos was disposed of more than ten years ago.  So I had been searching for a video camera, still-working, that we could use to view these tapes.  And I finally found one!

After purchasing some software that will rip the video from the tape and put it on a DVD, I've begun to edit all the footage.  The problem is that I have to hold down the play button on the camera as the entire tape plays through, allowing the computer to record everything it sees.  There are 20 tapes, 10 of which have footage of Kika and Grandma, the two most influential people in Mom's life.  I have to capture every moment and put it in a single video that Mom can view.  The thing is, this isn't just a Mother's Day gift.  This is a gift for Mom's entire family to see. 

We're gonna have quite a cry-fest on Mother's Day, I'll tell you that!


Wow. That's an amazing gift. I can tell you, as a mom, nothing could possibly beat it. You honour her past, the important people in her life, and you turn that into something that future generations will be able to see and feel and know her through. A legacy gift.
 
Ibejaran, That is wonderful, you will all have a very beautiful mothers day full of family memories.

Blooie & Heartsizedfarm :D you make it funny when you start pointing out grammatical and punctuation errors, I hadn't noticed until you pointed out.
 
Is anyone else excited for Mother's Day? 'Cause you don't need to be a mama to get excited for it!

I'm in the process of helping Dad out with Mom's gift. If you all promise not to spill my secrets, I'll tell you the story. Pull up your chairs and buckets!
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Several years ago, Mom took a trip to California to visit her oldest sister, Kika. She had cancer and it was quickly becoming apparent that it wasn't going to end well. Mama was just a young teacher back then, just getting a grip on her student loans, so she didn't have much money. My other aunts and uncles were visiting Kika all the time, taking flights once every other week to visit and take care of her. Mom couldn't do that, but she made the effort to visit once.

Mom was afraid of flying. Heck, Mom was afraid of leaving the Rio Grande Valley. The idea was terrifying to her, but she got on that plane with Grandma and they were off, ready to visit one of the most influential people of her life. Mom took care of Kika for a week before returning home.

Kika was very important to Mom. She was the one who worked several jobs to make ends meet and to send her siblings to school. She wanted Mom to become something, so she made sure Mom did well in school. She made sure Mom, the youngest child in the family, went to college. Mom always said that Kika wouldn't let her quit her job at Whataburger because if she did, she'd be quitting on school and her entire future. Now, Mom has been an English teacher for 28 years and she thinks she still have at least 10 more years left on her before she has to retire. Students still come to visit her from 20 years ago, bringing along their kids to meet the woman who will have taught English to not one, but two generations of their family.

In lieu of Mother's Day, Dad found all his old video tapes. Unfortunately, the old video camera that Dad had used to record all these home videos was disposed of more than ten years ago. So I had been searching for a video camera, still-working, that we could use to view these tapes. And I finally found one!

After purchasing some software that will rip the video from the tape and put it on a DVD, I've begun to edit all the footage. The problem is that I have to hold down the play button on the camera as the entire tape plays through, allowing the computer to record everything it sees. There are 20 tapes, 10 of which have footage of Kika and Grandma, the two most influential people in Mom's life. I have to capture every moment and put it in a single video that Mom can view. The thing is, this isn't just a Mother's Day gift. This is a gift for Mom's entire family to see.

We're gonna have quite a cry-fest on Mother's Day, I'll tell you that!

What a fabulous gift. And will be so treasured. Good daughter.
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Wow. That's an amazing gift. I can tell you, as a mom, nothing could possibly beat it. You honour her past, the important people in her life, and you turn that into something that future generations will be able to see and feel and know her through. A legacy gift.
I'm just hoping to get a decent video camera soon so I can proceed to record Mom. I don't think I have enough pictures of her, let alone videos. I'd hate for my kids (whenever I have them) to not be able to know their grandmother the way I do. Sure, they'll see her as their grandmother, but it's always great to have more of a perspective on the people you love. If I finish the video, I may post it as a private YouTube video for all the family to view. Mom can share it immediately. I'm just hoping I can edit it all while Mom is at work. I only have about 16 hours left to finish it (that's approximately how long Mom will be at work Thursday and Friday) and there is about 20 hours to sift through. So much work, so little time, haha!

I think that is the most wonderful gift I've ever heard of! God Bless you and your dad, and please don't tell her I ended a sentence with a preposition!
Your secret is safe with me!
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But it's a bit awkward to say "that is the most wonderful gift of which I have heard." Somehow, doesn't have the punch of your sentence.

An English teacher for 28 years. Powerful work.
Mom leaves an impression with nearly every student. The only thing I wish is that I could have experienced that same sort of impact. Alas, despite her being my English teacher at one point, I always saw her as my mother first and foremost. But then again, I'd much rather be her daughter than just her student. As her daughter, she gave me lessons that no teacher could have ever given me.

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I hope so! I don't remember meeting Tia Kika, so watching these videos while editing them is making it much easier for me to understand why Mom loved her so much.
What a fabulous gift. And will be so treasured. Good daughter.
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I try. Editing videos and painting a couple little surprises for her seems like such a small thing considering all she has put up with when raising me. I wasn't exactly an easy child to raise....

But I was loads better than my older sister and brother!
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The video is a wonderful gift and I am sure it will be treasured.
Growing up, we would watch slide shows of family pictures. I would like to take those slides and scan them onto CD's and make copies for my sisters also. Maybe now that I will be back in WI and close to mom and dad, I will have a chance to do that project. great memories! We always had popcorn with butter, and a glass of Pepsi. It's shame my nieces and nephews don't have anything like that.

Prayers for those with illness and/or family members with health issues. My heart goes out to you. I would rather be the sick one, than watch a loved one deal with sickness.
 
Bruce - you asked about the dairies in WI.
This is just my opinion, based on what I learned while working for the county with farm programs. Such a great percentage of the small family dairies have sold out and the mega dairies have taken over. The farmers are getting older and the kids don't want to be tied down to the land, so they just sell to developers or corporate farms to get the money out of the land. Then people like me, who want our own little piece of heaven will by small parcels of that land. The large corporate farms are located in more rural areas, not so much along the lakeshore. But also, it is near impossible to make a living at dairy farming unless you are a big farm - talking about milking 500+ cows.
A lot of these cows spend all of their lives in barns, the feed is green chopped and hauled to the barn. They will go into a milking parlor two or three times a day, but otherwise they spend all their time under a roof.
 
Bruce - you asked about the dairies in WI.
This is just my opinion, based on what I learned while working for the county with farm programs. Such a great percentage of the small family dairies have sold out and the mega dairies have taken over. The farmers are getting older and the kids don't want to be tied down to the land, so they just sell to developers or corporate farms to get the money out of the land. Then people like me, who want our own little piece of heaven will by small parcels of that land. The large corporate farms are located in more rural areas, not so much along the lakeshore. But also, it is near impossible to make a living at dairy farming unless you are a big farm - talking about milking 500+ cows.
A lot of these cows spend all of their lives in barns, the feed is green chopped and hauled to the barn. They will go into a milking parlor two or three times a day, but otherwise they spend all their time under a roof.
Silly girl! You know where all the Wisconsin folks end up! Right here in Wyoming during deer season and trout season! One day while we were up in the mountains deer hunting we counted 18 cars, trucks, and SUV's with Wisconsin plates - and yes, you read that right - in ONE day! Ken looked at me and said, "Who the he** is watching the cows?"

Guess they don't have deer and fish in Wisconsin!
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