I hate when people that say they want the chicken you put up for sale and give you a time they will be there but then don't show up. Just message me you don't want the bird anymore. Its not going to hurt my feelings if you don't want it anymore. Seriously communication is key!
I used to sale kune kune piglets and got that constantly. I usually don't get upset over much. Not worth it so I wouldn't say it pissed me off or anything but ya after making sure I was home for that hour or two window for a no show and no courtesy message was disappointing. I'd never do that to somebody.
With the vehicle search I'm pretty much used to how people are nowadays so unfortunately I've come to expect it. That's a real shame isn't it?
I had fun with the guy today. I had to explain to him that I work weekends and I have my son in the evenings so to go look at a vehicle it would have to be one of three days during the week and as early as possible because if I bought it I would then have to go get somebody to help me get both vehicles home. Get both vehicles home in time to go pick my kid up at school.
Yeah that's a pain in the ass for someone to work with but it is what it is and I'm up front about it and bring it up right off the bat. Today was not a day off for me but tomorrow is. He kept wanting me to come and look at it today and I kept telling him I couldn't I was at work.
He tried to tell me he was just wanting to make sure I was a serious buyer and assure me he was a serious seller. When I told him I just couldn't do anything today he sent me pictures of two other people that had messaged him about the vehicle. Yeah I get it other people may be interested and if he sells it today he sells it today. Won't be the first time that's happened.
He tried to put a little pressure on me and when I said something he went back to telling me he was just trying to see if I was a serious buyer and showed me the next message one guy had sent him. I'm actually carrying around a stack of $100 bills so I don't miss out on something for a lack of cash in hand.
We are a tad over an hour away from each other. I messaged him and told him if he was a serious or is he claimed he could always bring the car to me at my work and I'd clock out and check it out and then we could take it for a test run and if he was honest about what he had said about it I'd buy it on the spot. I fanned the money out on a table of work and took a picture of it and sent it to him saying yes I'm a serious buyer now how serious are you of a seller?
He thought about it but then backed out when he Googled and found out how far away I was. We talked a few more times throughout the day and he was eager to make sure I was going to come tomorrow and check it out. I told him I would but I was going to wait till late this evening and message him to make sure he didn't sell it today before I got too excited and set a time in stone to when I would be there. It might not work out but at least I had fun playing along today.