My large breed flock is 100% free range. I believe for their mental well being it is worth the risk. Predators happen even for the most secure set ups. Folks have posted about bears ripping open coops and fences, nothing ever is 100%. I have chosen a more natural way for my birds to live and occasionally lose some to predators. We try to be proactive in our set up and reactive to the situation. You don't need people saying you did something to cause it, life caused it.That's what I'm afraid of. I'll give it the two weeks as oldhenlikesdogs suggested and then I'll do what needs to be done. Sooner if I feel he's suffering. I definitely don't want that.
I have a secure coop and run with buried 1/4 inch hardware cloth that I too had to fight my DH for. But when I got the roo and new hens I started free ranging because I have always felt strongly that animals should live free as they were meant to. Now my DH blames me for the attack. My heart hurts as I feel so badly for what happened, but I don't regret my decision. Although now my DH like your sisters husband realizes I was right about the hardware cloth, as he never did truly think there was any threat other than Hawks.
BTW does anyone know how to quote without repeating the entire previous quote?
Thank you for saying that. I haven't let the remaining three hens out yet, I think they're too few and it's too soon after the attack, but I will free range again. I feel the same way you do.