We can always see things that we intended to be different.  When I built that custom kitchen, I could look at it and see every minor little detail where something didn't go as planned, the miter joint that wasn't perfect, the nick from the router bit on the raised panel, etc.  But I was the only one who saw them as imperfections.  You did a wonderful job and that's coming from a seasoned wood worker.
Rest Debby, you've earned it.  Get something warm and soothing to drink and enjoy your evening.  Sue's sipping a hot chocolate with salted caramel bourbon in it. 
