Sorry to hear about yet another tunnel minded doctor. The job is to educate, and provide information, as well as opinions. Ultimately you are to make the decision. I can't remember the exact numbers, nor do I feel like researching it again, but the actual deaths were about 1 in 500 for the smallpox vaccine. Yes...it did erradicate the disease, but at a cost. Side effects and disabilities like paralysis and nervous system and muscular system disorders were not included in that. I would hope vaccinations are better these days, and for the most part, many are safe and actually prevent the disease they are intended for! Imagine that! However, I have to respect a parents decision not to immunize with the rest of the herd...particularly those children not running with the herd at a particular time. Its no skin off a Dr to explain in a nutshell how vaccinations work and what effects it can have, both good and bad, and yeah, lifesaving as well. With the internet available its alot easier to research things without spending all day in a medical library. After seeing first hand the results I do respect a mothers concern for her child...because ultimately its her responsibility (and the father too)