My mailman of several years opted for an inside job at the PO. His arms from shoulder to his hands are covered with garish tattoos, he has piercings and ever present pony tail.
At first I couldn't stand to look at him but, mellowed over the years - now I don't notice at all. But the neighbors comment on him when they use the PO.and think he is a freak. He isn't a young person anymore but I'm sure he gets more tats when he finds space for them.
Funny but, now he is a person to me and we talk about his family. He married a divorced women with young kids, and I've heard he is a great husband and father. I've learned his "trappings," are not evidence of a certain kind of personality. He is soft spoken, very emphatic, and smart. Yeah he does ride a motorcycle but, doesn't have whips, chains, or use drugs. He does smoke but, that doesn't affect me. He has a name and I always address him by that, not by some label.