tjo makes perfect sense to me
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I dunno..... Sometimes I REALLY don't know.
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I'll bet it was.
chica, my mother got gold shots for her RA.
We are getting 2-3 eggs a day.
I got divorced even though I didn't want to because I thought to myself: in 10 years, will I regret not leaving now?
The answer was yes.
My life is a lot different now, and I didn't have kids so I know it's not the same situation but I don't regret doing it. It was a crazy few years.
Congrats to both of you that it worked out best for your situation. It IS always a little difficult right after the change, but as with most things, recovery happens, we adapt, and if it was really so bad that leaving was best, than the end result HAS to be better than what was. Having gone through 2 divorces now (there will NEVER be an opportunity for a third), I've had a bit of the experience. The first one, I had sole custody of 3 young children (like 5/6/11), was on active duty in the Navy, on sea duty, and deployed/ing... But we survived and made it! I can't imagine what hell I'd be in now, if I hadn't left that situation when I did. Anyway, we all have to make life decisions and live with them. We just try to do what's best for all.SCG --
I understand that sentiment completely. I was so very glad to have divorced at 40 rather than, say, 50 when it would've been so much harder to recoup and rebuild(**). I told one of my girlfriends that little idiom and it gave her the impetus to move from NYC back to her native CA because, as we all know, we're not getting any younger. She had just driven over state line in the U-Haul when the Twin Towers got hit on 9/11.
(**)My ex proclaimed he'd make me a bag lady (he was such a $$ control freak that during marriage I never had more than $3 cash in my wallet). Ha! He *had* to remarry as his habits made him financially unstable and unable to support himself. I had a brief bout of poverty (such is the reality post-divorce) and then thrived to the point that I retired on my own dime at Age 57. It's not easy to make and execute that decision to divide, but divorce is doable....just difficult and maddening for a bit.