Sorry for all the BS you've been dealing with Clue... I've been a landlord, and I've been a tenant... I hope you didn't spend too much on the fence repairs... short of small claims court, I don't know what else you could do. If he tries to stiff you on the security deposit, I wouldn't hesitate to take him to court! Sorry hubby has change issues, especially in this case. ownership is so much better than renting, and in most cases the mortgage is/will be less than the rent for the same place would be. landlords couldn't really afford to be landlords if they weren't making money doing so... Negative cash flows will drain even the wealthiest landlords. Utilities are gonna cost you either way. Good luck with the home search and hope hubby can deal with it.