It was like a dateing thing. Went over with a group, they met a group, all safely and publicly. Few dates get to know each other, he went back over a couple more times met the family and eventually married her over there and then a long process before she got to move here. Made it easier beings most of them know English already. I think it cost him some $$ , was a long haul truck driver at the time so he had it.
We did pick on him quite a bit, especially over the long process of moving her here, "Yeah right your just waiting for her to turn 18 ain't ya! Lol"
I am so glad it worked for him