Totally agree with all said and tons of hugs and a small prayer for a fast recovery from surgery and all as well. Are you going to get some help with all your folks while you heal?You bet it does and that was the gist of what I was going to post along with lots of
Sure it would have been nice to get an "all clear" we would all want that. But I think you suspected this was going to be the diagnosis. Surgery in a week is better than "we'll keep looking at it until we figure out what is going on.
I've "known" you for what, 5 years? Strong, intelligent, logic driven, self sufficient woman. You know we are all rooting for you to come through this as quickly as possible.