The Queens Island: Enter If You Dare

[room onthebroom]

BF’s & BFFs do not come with a signed contract. If someone treats you badly, just walk. It’s not easy, but it is worth it.

Relk & Ms. Snake Flag are not being nice to their queen, so I am walking away (ok, so I’m just going in the other room for dinner, but don’t tell them that.)

 

[EverythingDucks]

Relk & Ms. Snake Flag are not being nice to their queen, so I am walking away (ok, so I’m just going in the other room for dinner, but don’t tell them that.)

You are not my queen, I am the queen of my own island.

 

[R2elk]

Relk & Ms. Snake Flag are not being nice to their queen, so I am walking away (ok, so I’m just going in the other room for dinner, but don’t tell them that.)

The Kingdom of Bob does not recognize you as a Queen. It is a Kingdom of one and has no need for a queen.

Enjoy your meal.

 

[ShrekDawg]

She had a bad home situation in part. She didn't know how not to control people because she lived in a controlling environment her whole life. I've moved on and forgave her...I burned all the letters and cards. I kept the pictures, only because I knew that one day if i ever had kids they would want to know how she looked, the girl who was such a huge part of my life

That sucks for her, really, but that’s not an excuse tbh. Lots of people have bad home situations and don’t grow up to treat people like . Most people still have a conscience and know right from wrong. And if she was truly your friend, she would have tried to make it work or at least take a step back and try to understand why you are upset instead of just gaslighting and ghosting you. I am sure she has her own issues but she should not have treated you like that and you should not make excuses for her behavior.

I hate when people use bad situations or mental illness or whatever to excuse their horrible behavior tbh. Going through something like that does not automatically give you the right to treat people horribly and it just contributes to the already hugely existent stigma against mental illness. See a darn therapist and work through it instead of conveniently blaming it on your (general you) problems, you know??

Sorry, bit touchy. anyway, it is not your fault and I hope she works through her issues and gets help but sadly, people like that often think they don’t have an issue.



TL;DR: Going through something does not magically turn you into a person.

 

[ShrekDawg]

The Pilgrims had squashes.

Didn’t it say like 10000 years before farming!?

 

[ShrekDawg]

You are not my queen, I am the queen of my own island.

I think Kiki overthrew you since she banished ice cream and desserts.

 

[EverythingDucks]

I think Kiki overthrew you since she banished ice cream and desserts.

I dont care about that, but the deal is I keep rule over my island, Kiki can have her milk island, and she'll again have control over the kingdom.

 

[ShrekDawg]

I dont care about that, but the deal is I keep rule over my island, Kiki can have her milk island, and she'll again have control over the kingdom.

Yeah but if you’re queen, shouldn’t you be deciding what’s banned!? and I still haven’t figured out what the heck a milk island is yet LOL

 

[Sapphire Sebright]

I will. Partly why I don't want a boyfriend cause I'm afraid of the same thing happening.

So sorry that you had to go through that. I sincerely hope that you find the right man for you, that he'll take good care of you, and that he know just how lucky he is to have you.

And if he isn't all that, tell me -- I'll off him with my scalpel.

 

[gointothebirdsfarm]

That sucks for her, really, but that’s not an excuse tbh. Lots of people have bad home situations and don’t grow up to treat people like . Most people still have a conscience and know right from wrong. And if she was truly your friend, she would have tried to make it work or at least take a step back and try to understand why you are upset instead of just gaslighting and ghosting you. I am sure she has her own issues but she should not have treated you like that and you should not make excuses for her behavior.

I hate when people use bad situations or mental illness or whatever to excuse their horrible behavior tbh. Going through something like that does not automatically give you the right to treat people horribly and it just contributes to the already hugely existent stigma against mental illness. See a darn therapist and work through it instead of conveniently blaming it on your (general you) problems, you know??

Sorry, bit touchy. anyway, it is not your fault and I hope she works through her issues and gets help but sadly, people like that often think they don’t have an issue.



TL;DR: Going through something does not magically turn you into a person.

I KNEW somebody was going to bring that up! Yea I totally agree...bad home situations do NOT give a person an excuse to act like that. It may contribute to their behavior, and thus you may understand a little bit more why they act like they do, but even if you are raised like that, YOU YOURSELF can do better. You can overcome. It is extremely hard, but it IS possible. The interesting thing about it though is that I do not think she realized it....that her dad was so controlling and that it rubbed off on her.she was so used to living under his reign. I'm not sure if she even recognizes it now, although hopefully she does. She moved out now...