Month #2 is underway.
I've stopped using the patch full time, and occassionally skipping a day or half day and for sure sleeping without one, but am still reliant on them as backup. We're finishing up our last box of the 14mg patches and will move down to the 7mg patches to keep on hand. We have commit losenges stashed everywhere, and neither of us are actually needing most of this extra support but are keeping it handy for the tough times ahead.
I hate to say this, but really, it's been easier than I thought. The first 3 weeks were really the hardest. I don't know what in the world made me take so long to actually accomplish this, but this time I just refused to talk myself out of it, and so.. it stuck.