The Story of Sam and Jenn--How it all went down

[Toast n Jelly]

I lurked mostly out of curiosity, but I have to tell you that my instincts kicked in at the very first post. It may just be coincidence??
but her user name Samarai Jenn sent a message to my brain
and I was very uncomfortable with it.

Reasoning would have that name be one used by a young male not a responsible mother with a huge farm to look after.
In further posts there were many mistakes made.
Thanks for bringing it out in the open so that now I know that I can trust my instincts (I sometimes doubt them) and maybe help in the future.

 

[Buster]

I actually never followed it and never paid much attention to it, other than to ask DW how it would be to have triplets.

Now that it's all out however, it irritates me that this disgusting human would use someone else's babies' pictures to fabricate a lie like this. Like I said earlier, if those were pics of my child......

 

[chick_newbie]

I posted this in the other link, but just in case you don't see that one, here it is.....


Just cuious, but did anyone else save this link too.

http://samandjenn.blogspot.com/

I followed this daily and felt horrible when everything started to happen this past week, but things didn't seem to make sense either. Pegnant with tiplets and still going out to eat and car shopping after being in the hospital fo preterm labor??? Vomitting child for 2 days and they are o a feeding tube???

If you look at the link above, the people aren't even the same. Never really thought about it until this came out and then I remembered that I had this link from the start....


Call me a sucker, cuz I too feel into the trap. I never posted, just read it daily....

 

[jnjross]

i stopped looking at the thread when "jen" said they put three infant seats, three kids and two adults in a tahoe , there's not even that many seatbelts in a tahoe!(7) , i warned something like this was going to happen, with all the prayer thread here, draws people like that who start making up stories for attention, i've seen it many times on a mommy site they're always uncovered by basic facts!

 

[crzychickenlady]

I had suspected a little towards the end with all that was going on and someone was always in chat....especially when "she" had the babies and he was in chat the whole tine and not with her.

I really bought into this and let myself get too involved, i guess thats why i didnt express my feelings to anyone.....and i'm a bit on the stubborn side and tend to do alot more than i should being pregnant...so some of the things "she" was doing didnt seem so odd to me.
This coming from a woman who just moved furniture al over her "nest" last night, LOL!

As far as the calf pics go...i didnt even look at them, i guess i should have, but i didnt.

All in all, I'm really freaked out about this whole thing...as i had daily conversations with "her" in text....i bawled my eyes out about "the loss of her baby" and tried to help "her" with arrangement ideas for the child.
I even texted "her" after my doctors appointment yesterday before i found out about all of this.......

I feel like a complete fool....and prolly wouldn't have allowed myself to get so close had anyone shared concerns with me....i really wish you all had.......

Thanks to all of you who found them out, good work!!

 

[Patch of Heaven Farm]

You are not a fool....just a warm and caring person reaching out to someone you thought was going through a rough time......

I will tell you next time (I pray there will not be a next time!!!) I have any doubts.

 

[pips&peeps]

I never really was involved with the thread until the end.

I reviewed the thread and Jenn was 8 weeks preggo on Dec 1 or Dec 8 and suddenly she was 24-26 weeks last week????

Someone corrected me when I questioned, so I thought maybe I missed something as I had not been following the whole time.

There were clues, we just all wanted to believe someone wouldn't be so disturbed as to lie about such things.

 

[sara]

Way to go beefy!

It's hard to believe that people have nothing better to do than deceive others.

 

[whatsup chickenbutt]

Its funny, I never suspected anything. I just thought you all were a big super oddly close bunch of people.
I thought it was so odd that this chicken forum was such a huge presence in their lives, hurrying to email byc to let them know the status of the car accident, emergency room, birth, death, I mean come on, surely these people would be tied up with closer friends and family than an online chicken forum. I envisioned Jenn leaning to Sam ever so quietly saying "Sam, please, log onto BYC, we need to let them know that Elijah didnt make it..." Strange, to say the least. But, still it didnt occur to me that they were not real. I only thought that I was more of an outsider than ever, because I really only logged on here to discuss chickens, and I thought it was pretty cool that you all had bonded so much.
But I really checked out when the request came across for songs for the funeral. ON A CHICKEN FORUM!! Really bizarre, but I still didnt think it wasnt real, just really wierd.
Its really fun to go back and read all the threads now though, and try to unravel it.
And by the way, I cried also for them when we thought they lost their little baby.

 

[lilchick]

I did not follow this thread at all. When it went down I decided to go back and read some posts and look at pictures...
I may not know much but deep green grass and flowers and trees leafed out in Nov.???? In Minnesota come on....
And who can have all those picture perfect animals at on time....
What losers to waste everyone's time on here....