I’m sorry about your boyI don't know. If I do adopt another male it will be a very young one.
Arthur ( my husband named him) was already grown when he showed up, and despite having him neutered, he still demanded to be outside at night. As anyone who has adopted an older cat knows, when they want out you let them out. Otherwise you stay awake all night long.
We'll never know what happened to him. That kind of broke our hearts. He was so sweet natured and was more dog like than the girls. He followed us everywhere. He could sure put the groceries away too. Both girls together do not eat as much as he did.

