I have reached out to several local farms, hatcheries and individuals because I would rather buy locally. Two of two farms have not contacted me back, 1 of three hatcheries has not contacted back and the two that did do not sex their birds and the individuals I've spoken with have been very helpful but timing is the issue.
This being my first go at chickens I would like them to be social for us as I'm sure that makes it more enjoyable.
It really seems like the mail order hatchery is the way to go (at least for me) because you get what you want, when you want. Hopefully the sexing turns out well but nothing is guaranteed.
Welcome! You're in for a fun ride! Unsolicited advice: Get your coop ready before you get your chicks. Then you can brood them right in the coop instead of in your home. This will avoid all the chick dander. (fine silty oily dust that settles on all surfaces including vertical ones!) That dander is hard on the lungs, not to mention makes housekeeping a real chore! The easiest way to brood chicks is with a Mother Heating Pad cave system. @Blooie is the MHP queen. There is an article and a thread about this system in her signature. MHP is much safer and a more natural way to brood chicks than a heat lamp. IMO, chicks who are brooded with MHP are more socially well adjusted.
Make your coop plenty big enough. Recommendation for back yard flock is 4 s.f. in coop and 10 s.f. in run per bird. Walk in style coops are much easier to manage. Lots of natural lighting, and ventilation (at least 1 s.f./bird is recommended) will help make your coop safe for them year round. Predator proofing: Use 1/2" welded hardware cloth to cover all openings. In your climate, you could easily have a combo coop, with 3 solid walls, and a front wall that is completely open. Check out the Wood's style coop, which excels in all climates, even my snow and ice region!
Breed choice: Check out Henderson's chicken breed's chart. Got kids? Gotta have an Easter Egger. Choose breeds that have a reputation for being docile and doing well in confinement.