Today is gonna be a hard one.

[Bammony]

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Without knowing the situation completely, it also is a form of abuse. When the person who has cast you aside and treats you poorly ESPECIALLY for a number of years, as in this case and then keeps dangleing you by a string. It's a form of control. It's a lack of respect and love abandon to keep drawing one in with a false sense of hope only to break their heart repeatedly.

As my Pastor says to me, "Guard your heart."


hugs to you Bammy,
gretch

Good point about the control G. I hadn't thought of that before.

 

[old mill poultry]

I just want to give you a hug. I'm so sorry. He must have thought about today too though if he called. Don't go back to bed, go do something for yourself today. You really deserve it. Go get your hair done, buy yourself something that will perk you up. The guy's an idiot and honestly you were really the best thing that happened to him. He left you and four kids what the heck is wrong with him? Anyways do something for you today.

 

[debilorrah]

Bam Bam, he is gonna keep calling every now and then, trying to see if you are still there.... Today is gonna be hard for you, you recognize that. It is ok to grieve and cry and probably throw a few unbreakable items if you choose.

for him and a BIG FAT

for you.

 

[SarahBeth9394]

Ok I'll say this. If my hubby did that to me he'd never spend another night in this home. I'd tell him to get out and get a second job because the alimony and child support was gonna suck him dry. But really you know I would never ever be able to trust him again. I do think that calling to see if your alright is about wanting to have your cake and eat it too.

 

[Bammony]

LOL You're too funny Debi. I have thought of smacking him a few times too.

I'm going outside now to soak up some sun and to watch some chickens. Still in my pj's, Afro hair and bra less. But who cares?! This is MY morning.

 

[lnm03]

 

[maplesky7]

...where the deer and the antelope play....

 

[Guinea Goonie]

There are few things in life that are worse emotionally than divorcing someone you once loved.

 

[Bammony]

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....and where the psycho woman with crazy blonde hair runs with four screaming children running behind yelling, Mommy!!!!!! He HIT me!!!!!!!".......

 

[Bammony]

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So true. This pain is DEEP.