today would be my 6 year anniversary... pic heavy

[sfw2]

Thank you for sharing your story and your pictures.

 

[WingingIt]

I'm pretty new here so I feel like I'm invading your privacy a bit reading this but I wanted to say what a beautiful tribute to your husband and marriage. It's obvious that you shared and continue to share an amazing bond and I don't blame you one bit for resenting when people try to tell you that you need to replace it with another, dating, etc. Thank you for sharing your life stories and the pictures with us.

 

[AHappychick]

thanks everyone, you really all seem to get it.

and WingingIt, first, no worries as I put it out there for all to see. and even I though last year that I had found someone to live the rest of my life with not a soulmate but someone I did have a love for, but he did not respect my ds and his athsma related needs so i kicked him to the curb. Since themn I realized that I really just have no desire to be with anyone except when lonliness hits me (or I have a big project that I cant do alone

) So I dont resent people saying it just it is kinda not what I have decided I wanted.

Thanks again guys. I went out today planted the little tree (I will decorate it in a week or so when I bring ds before Christmas)

 

[babylady4]

Beautiful story, thank you for sharing. Reminded me of myself and my husband. Your little boy is adoreable!

 

[CMV]

I keep coming back to this post and finally I am compelled to reply. I am glad you found the perfect man for you. I am glad you were able to experience the great love that we all wish for. I am sorry you lost that man. I am happy that besides all the great memories you have a tangible piece of him still in your life- your son. I wish you and your son all the best for your future.



Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. -Alfred Lord Tennyson

 

[WriterofWords]

Hey there, I wanted to drop back in and see how things went today. I hope you had a great day!

 

[Sillystunt]

I have gone through alot of loss in my life. I have had very close friends and loved ones leave me within a blink of an eye. One thing i have learned is that it is better to celebrate their lives then mourn. PLEASE don't get me wrong ,mourning is part of the healing process. When you can get to a point where pictures of them make you happy rather than make you sad, you realize you have come a long way. I am still working on that.
I just want to say," I am sorry for your loss!" thank you for sharing AJ with us and all the beautiful memories you have with him. I know it isn't easy but we are here to embrace you!
xoxoxoxox
Heather

 

[AHappychick]

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it went ok. It just got cold here and it snowed last night so the ground was cold and wet. Played some music. smoked, the usual.

Getting ready now to make the dough for ginger bread men cookies.

gotta soften my dark brn sugar and needed to go online to see how lol got stuck on BYC as usual

 

[bargain]

Thank you for sharing. What a tribute to the "love you all had" and I appreciate the sharing you have done.....Life is fragile,,,,I'm so reminded of this when I read it. Living life to the fullest and with love is wonderful.

God bless you now and always.

 

[redhen]

So sorry.

But i'm happy that you had that kind of love in your life. That kind of true, deep, soul mate love is truly a blessing. You're a strong, beautiful, vibrant woman..and you have my deepest sympathy that he was taken from you too soon. You're in my thoughts..