I would definitely discuss the matter with him before butchering day arrives, and preferably before getting any animals at all. That way you don't have an urgent need to kill an animal before the discussion happens.Ok thanks. When I do meat birds I want to pawn off the killing to my future husband and I was hoping that he could do it by himself lol. Thanks for replying!
(I hate it when people assume I will be willing to do a particular job for them, and tell me at the last minute when I feel that I can't say no. I wouldn't want your future husband to be in a situation like that either.)