So ... Just like people.This thread is about chooks but I’ll add some things about geese too.
Myth 1: lobe shape is determined by gender. One long single lobe means gander, two Pompoms indicate female. Wrong!
Males and females get both or a mix of the two. Certain breeds have even been bred to typically have one type regardless of sex.
Myth 2: ganders can’t get along. Wrong!
Who gets along and who doesn’t depends on personality, not sex. Boys and girls don’t always get along with certain individuals of the opposite or the same sex. I have a number of ganders that are perfectly bonded and don’t fight, I have others that tolerate each other, others that can’t be out together without war breaking out, males and females.
Relationships can sometimes change too. Two of my ganders who once despised each other are now bonded and will cry if you try to seperate them.
Two of my girls that once terrorized each other are now the best of friends.
