I am not saying you cannot breed some resistance into a flock. I have found some breeds more susceptible than others that I own.
I think and this is nearing the wives tale category, the time of the year the chicks hatch. The weather, sunny or cloudy at that critical age of under 20 weeks makes a huge difference on whether the bird can defeat Marek's or not.
Even the birds you an I list as resistance are most likely infected and spreading the disease horizontally. (the only way Marek's travels).
I am a "certified" breeder (using your terms) I have an NPIP flock. I have not brought in a non-NPIP bird in years. I have brought in a couple of NPIP birds to help expand my genetics. If you never bring in birds you will have other problems showing up.
I have around 200 adult birds. I am not a small flock. I am not a large flock, I still need the new genetic material now and then.
NPIP does ZERO testing for Marek's. While I have heard of a live test being tried at a university, I do not believe it is in widespread use, and I wonder if it is what use the test would be. The person telling you not to worry about Marek's is misinformed.
I do not know of a "cure". I have tried way too many that have failed. Like you I have watched them die. Marek's is not a disease good bio-security is going to stop. There are a ton that are stopped by bio-security. They are mainly bacterial or in a weaker virus.
I would like you to read this:
https://blogs.unimelb.edu.au/sciencecommunication/2010/11/07/everyone-has-a-herpes-virus/
It does not deal with chickens but humans, read how the virus can hide and reactivate.
It could very well be the chickens that died had just meet a herpes virus that was slightly different or altered from the one you had, and the number of virus lying around your property were too highly concentrated for them.
Marek's is Russian roulette. I played it for years with no problems until it was a problem. It is cheaper for me to vaccinate then feed birds and watch them die.
In addition because Murphy hates me I succumb to his or her law. The chances of a bird dying are inversely proportionate to the amount of desire I have for that bird to mature. So the better looking the bird is and the more I think it will win at the shows, the higher the chance it will die.
I try to not put a lot of stock into casual observations regarding which bird lives or dies with Marek's anymore. Casual observations are what cause bad science and a bureaucrat publishing an official government handout that says "Turkeys will help protect your flock from Marek's"....completely ignoring the other problems chickens and turkeys raised together have..
I know as I keep my turkeys with my chickens 95% of the time. I have to keep a close watch on the other problems because of it...
Good luck. The worst thing I have around here is trying to find a Marek's vaccine. It is only 20 bucks for 1000 doses, the smallest size bottle available. but shipping costs nearly 20 bucks as I have to order it and cannot buy it off the shelf.