I'm so sorry Cyn - As soon as I saw "She's Dead" in the title I was tearing up for her, for you, for your DH, for Suede. This world is so blasted infuriating sometimes - so many innocents robbed of life. It just isn't right. I am terribly sorry. Poor Velvet. One thing your little ones are not robbed of, howver, is love - they get that in spades. If you can, take some comfort in this. Hugs from afar. :aww
JJ

JJ