[COLOR=006400]For the most part, my kiddos have not had a lot of issues in school. That being said, I feel I have been very fortunate with my kids' experiences, as I know several people who have not had the same experience. I have friends whos kids have been picked on, not by students, but by school staff. I also have a friend who has a son with ADHD, who would have fallen through the cracks if she had not stepped in when she did. I do feel that a child's learning experience starts at home, but at the same time, it seems that teachers do not seem to be held as accountable for their actions anymore either. Then there are the absolutely AWESOME teachers, who don't seem to get any recognition for what they do. My older son had the BEST teacher in 6th grade, totally involved with the kids' learning and on top of her classroom. She ended up getting laid off at the end of the year. Seriously? I am very concerned about my little guy starting Kindergarten and have considered home schooling him, but he is SO excited about starting school, that I am on the fence.[/COLOR]
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As a teacher AND a mom of a fairly severely AD/HD + learning disabled son, I know both sides of the coin. As far as starting kindergarten, go in early and meet the teacher. If your child has some special needs, talk to the principal first, and have him/her help select your child's teacher. Keep in mind that bullies and jerks exist everywhere and all through our lives, so it's good for kids to learn to self-advocate at a young age.
On the teacher end, keep in mind that bullies and jerks know when teachers aren't looking, and they act then. Kids need to let us know what's going on, or we can't act on it. Kids and their parents have to stand up and speak up.
My sister's oldest is autistic. She knew she'd spend a fair amount of time being the Mom from Heck, so in between bouts of putting her foot down, she volunteered in the classroom, joined the PTA, and was very friendly and helpful.
For myself, my kids commute with me, so that even though we live out-of-district, my kids attend my school. I have spies everywhere! I can keep an eye on my boy's behavior, and monitor his academic progress carefully. Poor boy never gets away with anything, but at least he always has the help he needs. I've had to go Mama Bear a few times
Anyway, that's my 2 cents on the issue!
--Nikki