@Chickielady , miss ya too. How's it now that you are actually living in a "house" wonderful I bet . . .Hang in there, most of us DO support each other, the rest you should learn to ignore, and above all, avoid arguments.
Each has an opinion...and some push a wee bit harder on their opinion than others.
This does not make them 'right'
It just makes them 'pushier' and hopefully I've spelt that correctly, otherwise our resident Englishwoman may correct me...would not be the first time...oh I miss ya Katy !
In any event, everyone can voice their experiences here, and hopefully not be hurt or "stung" by another's personal opinion...but learn....research before you react, in all situations of your life, not just here !