We moved, and lived in a tiny cabin, no room for anyone, and so tiny ya have to go outside to change your mind.
Then we built a house, also tiny, 1 bedroom downstairs, and the loft is mt art studio, and this is the last time I am giving up my art studio !!!!!!!!
It is incredible how nasty & user friendly people can be with someone elses' property !
You have to wonder who raised them to be such jerks ?
And never let them stay, or borrow, again.
You know what they say about fish & relatives ?
It is true.
The really bad part (with friends, too) is after a while you absolutely HATE these people you used to enjoy.
I just got to the point where I did not care where they went, just get OUT NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was never surprised that 1) I was there for forever the bad guy, and
2)someone, usually another friend in the circle, takes the tossed out person within minutes, all the while telling horrors about how mean I was !