Thank you! And thanks for taking the time to help me out! I think we're just looking to rent at first, so we can get a feel for the area before we commit, and we're also Canadian citizens (though we've been living in California for over two years now).
So far as commute, my husband would be working in Kent. He's willing to commute a fair distance for an amazing home. I stay at home with our two kids (ages 2&3). My son is in a full day special program, so we'd be looking for something similar there for him too.
We're used to bad commutes and high costs of living; in Canada we lived in Toronto for fifteen years, and we're currently living in San Jose. I've been looking online at houses and thinking we can live like kings in the Seattle area compared to here!!!