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I wouldn't bet on it. He has to do it when he's good & ready.
Exactly. You cannot just quit, you must WANT to quit, and for your own reasons.
Millions of people WANT to quit, but sub consciously, they really do not want to.
There is not a smoker or chewer alive who will not say it is gross and they want to quit, then a little voice in their head says no, we like it.
Therein lies the addiction.
It is a chemical addiction as well as a habitual addiction, too, with the nicotine fitting very nicely into nerves plexis and calms & sootes the nervous sytem, exactlly as dopamine does in our brains.
Dopamine production slows & stops after nicotine is introduced, so withdrawal from nicotine can leave the nervous sytem "raw" and irritated.
During a stressful time, he may not be able to quit.
Quitting takes conscious constant effort to fight, and hard to do when there is so much other stress going on.
It is easy to reason with yourself, it is very very hard to reason with, and control, your sub conscious self.
Hard to explain, but even though YOU (self) may totally agree it is nasty, and expensive, and a health risk, and you want to quit, your sub conscious wants it, likes it , and does not give a hoot what anyone else wants.
This is very evident when alot of people quit smoking, but keep drinking...and they do so well at quitting, until after a few beers they go light up a smoke.
Why ?
Cuz they have suppressed their good judgement by drinking, and the sub conscious is now taking charge, all the good intentions and reason is threatened.
The best quitters have to realize that there is 2 of you in this body..seriously.
The sub conscious mind is hard to beat, and quite fascinating....sometimes very scarey.
I underwent hypnosis to quit smoking (years ago) and even though I was a willing pateint and the doc was right there, I did not hear a word he said.
Nothing.
My sub conscious mind refused his subliminal suggestions and shut out his every word.
I used Chantex to quit, it makes you not care if your hair is on fire..I like it alot, no nervous freak out, it works. It is expensive though.
But long story short, if his sub conscious does not want to quit, he won't be able to fight it.