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I used to. I used to give her cash, and when I was in CA I boxed up rice, canned goods, mac'n'chees, boxed scallop potatoes, oatmeal, you name it, and toiletries, deoderant, shampoo, cream rinse, pantie pads, girlie stuff, bras, panties, shirts, pants, socks.
The postage alone was killer.
I even sent her cat food, canned & kibbled.
She chastised me for getting the wrong size several times, so I am soooooooooooo over her.
She is off to Chicago to live with an on-line dude she met (on line) I am waiting for the call of "Oh Mom, I need a plane ticket home!"
So am almost afraid to answer my phone.
Okay, I wasn't going to share my latest story or my opinion....but ya' know me...big mouth and all. Okay, I ask you CL: How old is your daughter? If she calls will you send her $$$$? The money you need for your home. Okay, so this sounds selfish of me...but it sounds to me that you have bailed her out of more than one sticky situation...and what did you get in return...a big fat....
. Maybe it is time for her to fall on her face and have to live up to her responsibilities. I mean if she was 12 you would help...but ? If you do just tell her: "Hey, kid, you're on your own", I guarantee it will be the hardest thing you have ever had to do and I will sympathise....because I dont' know how well I would be able to do it.
My story: My DH's ex writes to him on Facebook and tells him that she needs $1300 so she can get a new apartment...I tell DH if he even sends her $13 I will cut off parts he really enjoys...he agreees with me and does not even respond to her. Well, now his son, whom has had little to NO contact with DH (by the son's choice) is hinting around about coming to live with us.....
NOT GONNA HAPPEN!!!!! The boy is in his 20's and says he cannot get a job because it hurts his neck when he lifts his head up (mind you he can play video games until early morning). And, he says people will not give him a job because his hair is too long (it is down to his butt). CUTTT IT!!!!! I think that deserves 2
Good luck CL, It is time you put YOU first and take care.
You are SO correct!!!
I did not list even half of the stuff, clothes, money sent for 2 seperate apartment rentals and other stuff we have done for this DD of mine.
You are so right & it has stopped.
I have lots of work to do & she could have come & worked & earned some cash for a year now and never did.
Applesauce there.
You are right-on Teresa!!!!!!!!!