Quote: Oh yes...in fact the mom who chewed me out...her son is one of them. She says they are "just being kids" and we were kids once and did things like this....ummmm I never did...I know some who did do some drinking...but I did not. I have NEVER drank so much I blacked out or went into a stranger's house. And yes, oldest is 19...on Thursday - the day he went before the judge. Happy B-day. Also one of the other drinking buddies has an older brother - could be him (the older brother is an alcoholic). They were all partying together....my David got so drunk he was biligerent...his buddies left him passed out in the park. When they came back to check up on him he was gone.
He needs new friends. Or at least he needs to see them at your house, under your watchful eye.
Yes, he does need new friends. Unfortunately, he is no longer welcome in our house at this point. We just can't have him around the two younger kids. He is 19, has no job, just graduated, has no plans for his future...we have had continued problems with his decisions...so we now need to think about the younger 2...until he can follow and respect our rules/etc in our house....then he needs to find other houseing. To give you an idea to understand David's behavior...he is the one in the movies...the college buddy that has not "moved on"...that goes from friend to friend's house and sleeps on their couch until either the girlfriend or wife kicks him out...THAT IS MY DAVID!