Hi guys.
DH got a call before he ever pulled in the driveway last night, that MiL is "stable" but doing nothing, no improvement.
her feet are black now, and IF she survives they must be amputated due to clots & necrosis.
her kidneys continue to fail..she has been defibbed over & over..she has one pin point pupil, one dilated, neither shows any signs when light is shown.
DH wanted to turn right around & go back but I needed feed & groceries and he needs to shower, eat and slow down.
FiL asked a friend in Sacramento to bring MiL's will, and her DNR inside to read to all in front of witnesses & the surgeon.
She does not want resuscitation if brain complicated..and so, tomorrow morning DH leaves again to go down there, and FiL orders the life support plugs pulled.
Once they are pulled, the surgeon said she may live a hour or maybe a day or two.
This means my DH is gonna drive 80+ mph to get there in "time".
I was going with him and have T-Hi come stay here, but we decided if the is a funeral it will take a minimum of 5 days to arrange, in which time I will be sitting there......and T sitting here....so I decided to stay here and when the funeral is arranged, I will hop a ride with my parents down there, and T-Hi and daughters can watch the place, and Diane (Boldogkennel) will watch over all here too.
This is so incedibly sad to know this wonderful man (FiL) has to pull the plugs, and let her die, the only woman in his life, together since they were 13 years old.
OMG it is so sad.
Don't look for me here too much, I am sad.............................