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Your poor son. He is being strong, for you. Do you realize this? I am glad he is being strong, but he is hurting. I hope that he and his dad can some day mend fences, but his dad is being selfish and childish....your son is being the ADULT!!!!! I can feel for your in laws, it does put them in an akward spot. Direct your venting to us...that way you get it off your chest. Take your son's advice, do not waste any more of your emotional energy on this person. Your son has decided to walk away...you need to too...it will not be easy. How old is he? teenager. he has enough junk going on in his life right now, just being a teenage boy.
He is 16 , and the strongest most amazing teenager I know! He has his moments like all teenagers, but then he will do or say something so grown up or truly understand something deep and I go, WOW. He doesn't blame me for what his father has done to him. He realizes that it is all his dad. So I am grateful for this. Hopefully I won't have anymore issues with his dad.