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http://bestsmileys.com/signs15/14.gif on your son and his wife.
Just had a near identical conversation with my mom about my brother. Mom brings them food, cleans their house cooks for the grand kids while his wife sits on the couch with her books and a pack of smokes. ... and mom has had 5 back surgeries in the past 3 years. Can't say things are much better here. DH has not given me a birthday present or card for any occasion but valentines since we got married (and then I think it is only for the fringe benefits he hopes to get later). Used to make me very upset, even dragged DH to counseling over it, and then got angrier cause nothing changed and I spent the $ I could have bought my own gift with paying the counselor! Now I just get together with a bunch of girlfriends and about once a year someone will rent a cabin somewhere for a girls weekend away.
I am sorry for both or you. I like the idea of just getting something/or doing something for yourself. Heck with everyone. I hope you both have a nice tomorrow.
http://bestsmileys.com/signs15/14.gif on your son and his wife.
Just had a near identical conversation with my mom about my brother. Mom brings them food, cleans their house cooks for the grand kids while his wife sits on the couch with her books and a pack of smokes. ... and mom has had 5 back surgeries in the past 3 years. Can't say things are much better here. DH has not given me a birthday present or card for any occasion but valentines since we got married (and then I think it is only for the fringe benefits he hopes to get later). Used to make me very upset, even dragged DH to counseling over it, and then got angrier cause nothing changed and I spent the $ I could have bought my own gift with paying the counselor! Now I just get together with a bunch of girlfriends and about once a year someone will rent a cabin somewhere for a girls weekend away.
I am sorry for both or you. I like the idea of just getting something/or doing something for yourself. Heck with everyone. I hope you both have a nice tomorrow.