more hugs to RFF
also wishes: that this is benign, easy to remove, and very early in its development
but Heather, for the sake of the baby, you need to SETTLE DOWN .. take deep calming breaths, and trust ...
why?
because when you worry, fret, and let fears overtake you, your system is flooded with adrenaline
the baby will be affected by this too ... which you don't want
seriously, right now, you need to take care of the two of you ... only for these very few weeks ...
I'm saying this because my second son was definitely affected by my worries and fright, the last few weeks of gestation
I was developing eclampsia, my husband was up in Alaska fishing, out of touch, I had no close friends nor relatives (my hub at the time had antagonized all of them and driven them away), and my mother was ill with pneumonia (living two states away, and my dad did not want her to travel away from him)
was so bad, I had to drive myself to the hospital (in Seattle, from Edmonds) when I went into labor .. I stuck it out at home as long as I could, hoping I could find someone to take me
had to answer a great many questions about possible drug usage, after the baby was born ... and I hadn't taken anything ... it was all simply the hormones circulating in my body ... luckily he settled down a couple of weeks later
I do NOT want this to happen to you !
also wishes: that this is benign, easy to remove, and very early in its development
but Heather, for the sake of the baby, you need to SETTLE DOWN .. take deep calming breaths, and trust ...
why?
because when you worry, fret, and let fears overtake you, your system is flooded with adrenaline
the baby will be affected by this too ... which you don't want
seriously, right now, you need to take care of the two of you ... only for these very few weeks ...
I'm saying this because my second son was definitely affected by my worries and fright, the last few weeks of gestation
I was developing eclampsia, my husband was up in Alaska fishing, out of touch, I had no close friends nor relatives (my hub at the time had antagonized all of them and driven them away), and my mother was ill with pneumonia (living two states away, and my dad did not want her to travel away from him)
was so bad, I had to drive myself to the hospital (in Seattle, from Edmonds) when I went into labor .. I stuck it out at home as long as I could, hoping I could find someone to take me
had to answer a great many questions about possible drug usage, after the baby was born ... and I hadn't taken anything ... it was all simply the hormones circulating in my body ... luckily he settled down a couple of weeks later
I do NOT want this to happen to you !
