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I was never supported by anyone.
On the contrary...when the the first child died, I was shunned by the in laws, and divorce resulted.
I was alone.
And raised the other 2 by myself.
I handled it...OK?
Then we had another death due to colon cancer...
I have never asked anyone for """support""" for this loss, nor any other loss I have.
Now that we have established that you are better, stronger person than I am, what's next?
How coincidental that we've both lost loved ones to colon cancer.
So, next question is , what are you doing about it?
Helping?
Supporting the cause?
I myself support the cause, as does my family.
ALL my family.
And we can conduct our lives daily without anything else said.
It does not come bubbling up at every post.
It is something that happened...it hurts, it was horrid, then it was empty.