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So, next question is , what are you doing about it?
Helping?
Supporting the cause?
I myself support the cause, as does my family.
ALL my family.
And we can conduct our lives daily without anything else said.
It does not come bubbling up at every post.
It is something that happened...it hurts, it was horrid, then it was empty.
What am I doing about it - that's a good question.
Regarding my daughters death, I'm doing the best I can. She was born on Dec 20th, 1987; died May 20th, 2011. I'm finding this first holiday season without her
extremely difficult. I wish I could do 'better'. Not sure what 'better' is -- but what I am doing now is *certainly* not good enough for you CL. I honestly don't know how to try any harder.
It is never my intention to cause others discomfort. Seems I have failed at that endeavor.
CL -- I never knew you lost a child until today. I don't think any parent should outlive a child.
It is hard, I know. And you have my best hugs go out to you.
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You do not need to do "anything" good enough for me, what you need to do, in my opinion, is what YOU need, not me.
I have my own to deal with, and I do.
It is not my place to remind all here of my losses, but to come her for happiness, compassion, love & comradery.
Perphaps you can learn to this too.
