KMHunter- the first time I shot a gun I wasn't yet 2 years old! My dad took me and a cousin, laid us down in the back of his truck bed, propped up the gun on a pillow, and we shot at squirrels (and killed a bunch!) ion a field that day. I grew up around guns, knives, hunting, animals, and "dangerous" stuff but even at 2 I had common sense not to touch guns unsupervised. My dad woulda killed me if the gun hadn't! LOL it's a different world now and I feel like my kid are missing out
We have guns, but they have gun locks and ammunition is stored separately. We have bows - again out of the reach of the kids. We have a BB gun, but the kids must be supervised while using it. All three of my kids have pocket knives, but they are supervised when whittling. My oldest has earned his whittling chip through Cub Scouts and has been allowed to carry a pocket knife with him to Den meetings for over a year. My 10-year-old has shot paint ball guns, archery, and has thrown hatchets (a large ax thrown at a stump).
I may be a safety-freak, but my kids are not missing out at all. They are taught safety skills, supervised carefully, and are taught to respect the tool whatever it may be (whether it is a weapon or a power tool). My children have been using a Dremel tool for a few years, as well.
I grew up with a bear/deer/elk/moose hunter. The man was crazy enough to hunt bear with a long bow that he built himself - and he got 3. Thank heavens he followed the bow up with a .44. We had guns, compound bows, long bows - you name it, we probably had it. When I was a kid I used to have to help my step-dad clean his black powder rifle. And my "special" job was pulling all the guns out from underneath the house when he wanted them. Blech!
I'm not against any of these things. I
am extremely safety conscious and drive respect for weapons/tools into my children's little brains. One slight mis-step and you can have a major accident or a death. My step-dad was a carpenter for 50 years before he accidentally cut 3 of his fingers off with a table saw. Going to the hospital with him that day was devastating. I've experienced life, and have seen accidents happen. My children are young, and as their parent, it is my responsibility to teach them instead of leaving it up to chance that they will have common sense at a young age.