Something I have also noticed in general is that people tend to read inflections into emails and blogs. You almost need to be more careful and add additional emoticons to let people know if there are inflections so they pick up the right ones rather than making assumptions, as you cannot otherwise notify people by tone or facial expressions. My brother is terribly offensive as an email writer so I know from experience! Last year my Mom sent out an email asking the family who was willing to host Christmas day and his email came back "We will have Christmas at our house." Instead of coming accross as kind and generous to agree to host he came across as a jerk! In my mind the correct way to verse that sentence would have been "We would be happy to host Christmas day at our house." Email can be touchy! Have a great day all and email cautiously!OK bear with be a bit while I bore ya. Or you may wish to just skip all of this post and wonder what ya missed.
First I want to say that it is a pleasure for me to see several "old timers" dropping back in. I hope they decide to stick around.
I am really going to stick my neck out here (imagine that) and say that from what I have gathered several of the older members have backed away due to too many changes here. And what has the appearance of others wanting to turn this thread into what they would like it to be rather than to participate in the thread as it has been for many years.
Now while I am only one little person on this whole thread it would be my suggestion that newer people set back and observe a bit. Now I am not suggesting that you not post I am just saying maybe get a feel of how things before you get to carried away. As an example I will use myself and RonB. Now many new people may see things between Ron and I and think that we do not get along. That is the farthest from the truth. Ron and I are VERY good friends but we have a good time teasing each other here. BTW were it not for BYC I would not know MANY of my AWESOME friends I won't take up the space to name them but they know.
I do not normally try to hurt feelings but sometimes it happens by mistake. And on rare occasion I will do it on purpose but it takes a lot to push me that far. I will be one of the first to go to bat for my BYC buddies.
And finally I want to say that in light of a recent event I realize that I should not read, post, read, post read, post. I really should read, read, read, then post but it is an old habit and so hard to break.
OK so hang me if ya will but I hope this may shed a little light on a lot of things around here.
Sincerely Rob
Jen