We Quit Cigarettes

@The Farmers' Daughter if you hate me that much, block me. It’s not that difficult. Takes about 2 seconds. I have just as much right to be here as anybody else. Blocking me would solve all of your supposed problems. Which, by the way, sounds like a personal problem, not related to me at all.

As for the rest of it, it doesn’t even deserve a response but I’m going to give one anyway.

Literally none of that is true at all. You just assume stuff about me and take it as fact. In reality, you know NOTHING about me.

No, my parents do NOT give me allowance or pay for anything. I will fully admit that they used to for a while but have not in years. I pay for everything with my dog walking money or the credit card which I pay off myself every month with the dog walking money. And yes, I make enough from that alone to be able to do that. Especially since I have also cut back significantly on my spending and have not bought anything in a while. But when I do, I use all of my own cash or card. The rest gets saved and I currently have about $6000 saved.

And yes, I DID make an account and DID apply for jobs both that night as well as most of today and am going to tomorrow too. And the next day and the next day until I get one. Because like I said before, things are different now.

And, just for the record, I have had a bank account for 2 years. So no, I didn’t just sit around and not make one like you seem to think. I made one immediately after that conversation. But it was a SAVINGS account. I didn’t make a checking one at the time because I decided a savings one was better for me and my goals and I never had a need for a checking one until now. Now I have both.

As for the enabler thing and the rest of it, not true at all. I join threads I think look interesting just like anybody else. Not because I’m looking for “enablers” or whatever nefarious reason you think I do it for.

Honestly, you sound pretty miserable constantly worried about what I do and coming up with all these false accusations. Your life must be pretty boring. Like I said, if you have a problem, block me.

But you know what, I’m actually glad you posted this because it just confirms what I always suspected everybody thought of me and I can finally leave for good.
Where did you apply?
Did you put an app in at the movies?
 
@KDOGG331 I applaud your moves. If anger helped inspire that the end result was good. Understand one thing - if folks didn't care about you, and maybe even worry about you they would not have been commenting. What everybody thinks of you is that you are a great young lady who needs to move on with your life. :hugs

Thank you Sour. I appreciate that. And I know you do and most other people do and I have met a lot of great people on this site which I am grateful for but clearly some do not think that way and it’s just no longer good for my mental health to stick around. I don’t know if I’ll be permanently gone or just a very very long break yet but either way, I need to leave for a while.
 
Where did you apply?
Did you put an app in at the movies?

No. They aren’t hiring. I applied for several positions at multiple locations of both Petco and Petsmart (there are several of each very close to me) and tomorrow I am going to be applying to the grocery store down the street and some feed stores.
 
What was the context?
It was the checker at the grocery store.
She asked how I was doing....just like she probably asks everyone all day long.
I told her I feel great because I quit smoking and today was day 9 with no cigarettes.

She was young and very sweet...the sacker boy even congratulated me.
 
Thank you Sour. I appreciate that. And I know you do and most other people do and I have met a lot of great people on this site which I am grateful for but clearly some do not think that way and it’s just no longer good for my mental health to stick around. I don’t know if I’ll be permanently gone or just a very very long break yet but either way, I need to leave for a while.
There's a whole world waiting
 
Heading to a&m with our best girl (dog) that’s crashing today unexpectedly. Blood test at the vet said she isn’t making red blood cells and it’s not looking good.

Send love. Please.
I'm sorry. :hugs it's been a bad couple of months for dogs, apparently.
Want me to walk over and say hi? Lol.
Please let us know what they say. They are VERY thorough over there (to the point of being exhausting). She is in the best hands possible.
 

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