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Thanks but I like reminding myself that I will NEVER smoke again because I won't.I quit that addiction 4 yeas ago after decades. It was difficult but am very pleased now and don't plan to go back.
Here are two points that has greatly assisted me;...
1) Cleanse your heart of sin and pray often...as in several times a day.
2) We have a little control center (hereinafter CC) up there some where and it is potent...very controlling....NEVER tell it that you will NEVER have another cigarette....it goes bonkers when you say that and you will loose control.
Instead...say to your self....no I won't have one now but, this evening or tomorrow morning I will have a nice cigarette after dinner with a glass of wine..or after breakfast with coffee. Do not drink wine during your quitting period...that is a BIG ....no no.
Cut out all hot spices...chili..spaghetti...etc..those are no...nos).
Change all your here to for routines after meals...go for a walk...read a good book...(the Bible is indicated). Keep gum handy for a diversion.
When time arrives that little CC will remind you...FOR SURE. That's the time to then postpone it until another satisfying time. As time goes by make it a few days rather than a few hours when you will have a cigarette. Repeat, repeat, repeat...as indicated.
( Presently I am going to have a nice cigarette on the 5th anniversary of my abuse cessation program...LOL).
Some would say that this is playing games with yourself...so what...if it works do it...you are hurting no one...or yourself.
Stay quit and be blessed.
(Let me know if this helps you...I teach addictive cessation seminars and feedback is important)
It works for me.