We Quit Cigarettes

Hey y'all...I recently (about 4 seconds ago) read that lurkers aren't welcome in these threads. I've been reading through and following along. I enjoy the tone and discussions in these threads but I don't think that I would contribute or fit in very well. This goes for several other threads started by @Kiki as well. Am I ok to lurk?
Are you being serious?
where exactly did you read lurkers weren't allowed?
link please?
 
I thought that I was fine but apparently lurking isn't welcome in these threads, only actively participating. I guess I'll have to stop.
says who?
trolling is very different than lurking and I'm not caught up yet but these last two post of yours make me smell something stinky.

I'll be back in a few once I finish catching up.
 
I'm sorry that I came across to you like that. I don't want to stir the pot, I just wanted to make sure that I wasn't doing anything that was unwelcome. I'm not reporting the content at all, I'm just lurking without chatting on the thread. I'm sorry that I came across poorly. I'm not very good at managing tone in my messaging and as I'm trying to maintain a good presence on the site, I don't want to be doing anything that is offending anyone, so when I came across something from a member on this site that I have a lot of respect for saying that something that I happen to be doing isn't welcomed, I wanted to make sure that I'm not offending anyone. I'm sorry if those comments offended you and I would be happy to take them down. I'm sorry for wasting your time.
you screwed up.
you knew exactly what you were doing when you screenshot that post and posted it here especially after never once commenting here before.

Don't troll.
You lose respect immediately for doing so.
 
Okay! This will be my last post on the subject. I just wanted to check in to make sure that I wasn't doing anything wrong. Enjoy your thread!
You are doing something wrong and I'd bet you knew you were with your first post here.


Unacceptable.
 
I'm sorry. I'm not trying to troll anyone or start anything. I will remove all of my posts. I'm not on the internet very much aside from BYC. and really don't want to offend anyone with anything I'm doing. I'm sorry for wasting your time. I'll try to not post anything similar.
You just lost points.

You can't stir the pot anywhere and expect people to forget.
 
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You just lost points.

You can stir the pot anywhere and expect people to forget.
I'm extremely sorry. Can you please tell me what I can do to make up for this? I don't want to be on anyone's bad side and I honestly was not trying to troll. I feel terrible about all this and came with the intent of checking on my behavior in the first place. I am trying really hard to not make anyone angry or unhappy. I have no other social media so I have not had much experience handling myself online. I feel terrible about all this and only want to make it right. If you want me to just leave the thread I will do so.
 

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