Ok folks I've got a little bit of a family problem. But let be take you bake a little ways so you get a clearer picture. At the age of 7 my father who had custody of me remarried a woman how didnt like me that much. She said she did but her actions said she didn't. Anyway growing up she and I didn't get along and my dad was always in the middle. This woman is a different breed of person, she's one of those people who will lie a little lie just to make her self seem better than what she is and she've very sneaky. Over the many years we have butted heads, because I for some reason am a emotional and loving mother and wife and I show it. I'm always telling my babies how much I love them ect. Well both my dad and his wife are not that way never were never will although they can joke and so forth I mean dont think that they are just rude miserable people, it's just that they dont really show emotion, or pride in people, now they will for thier animals. Ok back to the point. This woman has even gone as far as lying to me about where my 5 year old was. Once I let my 5 y/o ds go and spend the night, the next day was a sunday and we went to church, we're Catholic, and afte,r I called her cell phone to see if he was ready to come home, and she said "Well Im heading home and I'll be there in about 10 min. but Luke is at home with your dad. So I hang up the phone and start driving to there house. When I get there, only my dad is there and I ask him where Luke is and he says oh he went with your momma to church and sunday school(Non Catholic). Oh I said. Then I said well thats funny cause she said that he was here with you. Well just as I had gone inside to sit down and wait here they came, not a word was said by her, Luke with his coloring page in tow. So I gathered up his things and we said bye. All the way home I was fuming! I told dH and he just shook his head. The next day my dad calls me appologizing for her lie and told me that she wouldn't do it again she was just scared I would get mad that she took him to a non catholic church. How Stupid! Ok so the most recent problem Im having with her is this. When our baby girl was gorn we named her Delaney. They came to see her at the hospitol and she asked the retarded question. "Well if her name is Delaney are ya'll gonna call her Laney for short? And we politely said no. Well here lately every time she's around my lil girl she's calling her Laney. Not Delaney. I mean c'mon it's not like it's a really long name. Over and over, Laney....Laney. I wanted to puke! I don't know what to say with out it sounding very mean because thats all I have in me when I think about how disrepspectful it is to call my baby a name we didn't choose. Ok now I could see it if it was a nick name like punkin or sugar. My dh says If I dont say something he will and I really don't want to have a big mess. What should I say? Sorry I wrote a book.
