What attracted you to your spouse/partner?

[Sillystunt]

What first attracted you to your partner? I saw how great he was with my BFF's children. He is the polar opposite of me. he was raised in San Diego , surfing at the beach. i was born in a concrete jungle known as kiladelphia.

2.) What is the one thing you love most about them?
He is a wonderful father to our 2 boys. From day one he accepted and loved my daughter. He is my best friend!!!

3.) If you had to pick someone based on only one trait, would it be looks or brains/personality? Looks fade over the years. We all get old! I would have to say personality. My husband is sweet and loving!


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[GaNewChick]

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I think the show is interesting. It shows how many of them do have a connection...down right giddy with excitement, but once they see them, they choose to walk out the front door.

Interesting POV on human behavior.

 

[nwgirl]

I think I saw that same episode. I didn't notice the acne either. She was actually very pretty.

I met my DH when I was 16. We met through a mutual friend and went out on a double date. I didn't like him at first. In fact when he called me the next day to ask me out on another date, I declined and told him I didn't feel as though we had a connection. We talked for a while and he asked me for another chance and I agreed. Ten years later we were married and we've been together now for 29 years.

1.) What first attracted you to your partner?
The phone call after our first date. We were able to communicate well.

2.) What is the one thing you love most about them?
I'm a hard person to love, but he's always been there for me.

3.) If you had to pick someone based on only one trait, would it be looks or brains/personality?
I am more attracted by what a man says. Words are a window to the soul.

 

[Holly O]

I met my husband on line, through ICQ. We where both separated, and I was not looking. I had 5 kids, all in elementary school at the time. He lived in PA. and I in AB.

1.) What first attracted you to your partner?

He would talk to me, and listen. and I would do the same. We had an instant connection.

2.) What is the one thing you love most about them?

He has a wonderful sense of humor, and is a very caring, and giving person.

3.) If you had to pick someone based on only one trait, would it be looks or brains/personality?

Intellect! I have Found that personality is so much more. It's funny as I didn't find him overly attractive, but now he is gorgeous to me.

He is the best thing in my life, and I'd not be happy anywhere without him.